Sunday, May 16, 2010

Baharein Phir Bhi Ayegi Magar Hum Tum_Lata in Lahore

Neeraj Tyagi Contribution to my Blog

Neeraj Kumar Tyagi May 16 at 8:31pm Reply


मैं पतली सी धार नदी की गहराई को क्या पहचानूँ !

मेरे अंतर प्रेम ,ह्रदय के कुटिल भाव को मैं क्या जानूँ !



वैसे कहते लोग कि मैने,

चीर दिया धरती का आँचल ,

मुझ से ही है जीत न पाया ,

कोई गिरिवर या कि हिमांचल ,

अम्बर पर छाये टुकड़ों में

चीर दिए हैं मैने बादल,

हर प्राणी कहते उत्सुक हैं

सुनने को मेरी ध्वनि कल कल

पितृ गृह से जब निकली थी

धवल बनी कितनी ,कितनी थी निर्मल

बढ़ता गया गरल ही मुझसे

माना पछताई में पल पल

आखिर मुझको ले ही डूबा

लगता है जो सागर निश्छल

ह्रदय दग्ध दिखलाऊँ किसको ,किसे पराया अपना मानू !

पथ साथी सब मिले लुटेरे

मान के प्रेमी गले लगाया

दोनों ही हाथों से लूटा

तन मन अन्दर जो भी पाया

सबने मुझको किया लांछित ,

देख जगत को मन भरमाया !

मैने सबके पाप समेटे

जो भी जितना संग ले आया

अस्तित्व मिटाया मैने अपना

तभी सिन्धु ने गौरव पाया

सुनी व्यथा पर दर्द न जाना ,

बोलो कैसे व्यथा बखानूं !!

By Poet Satyaprakash Tyagi

Reshma-aankhiyaan nu

Lambi-Judai-hero-Heartbroken-Sad-Song

Saturday, May 15, 2010

Why Men Don't Cry written by Kamlesh Chauhan all rights reserved @Kchauhan2010

Why Men Don’t Cry?


Written By Kamlesh Chauhan

Copyright @ 2010







We are going all the way through very rebellious period where women are becoming more and more candid, Independent and career oriented which is mostly conventional to young male generation. Women reject to take physical, verbal and mental abuse which is great challenge to men world. If we say abuse has been stopped against women that are our erroneous belief. Look at human trafficking, People think Prostitution is an old trade instead of ending that trade, Society accepts without taking a measure on such an evil.



Why Men are abusive? Why Men don’t cry? Do we ever think about these issues?

It’s easy to play victim or blaming attacking men only than taking a stand on it. No relation is worry or problem free. Every marriage has problems. There is a time when Parents from both side to arbitrate and there is time when families take leave from both adults married kids. Some time they do need to consult them sometime we let them figure out their own issues.



But we all failed to see some serious concern about abusive pattern in both among men and women. Men also deal with abusive women physical, verbal or manipulative controlling, nagging behaviors. Men mostly don’t complain. They show their anger but feel ashamed to be abused by their female partners. Women world is frustrated with men ruling them for centuries. Now women are not only assertive but they are getting aggressive. Some girls being abused as child at parents home, some being isolated when they witnessed abuse at parental home. Some parents beat, scold their girls as child so when young girl get married she is already on her high horns not let her mate to take advantage of her as her young mate is ready to shower love and kindness. Women mostly less abusive but nagging, controlling weapon been used on their innocent loving, kind mate to take revenge on men something their forefathers done to family women. Do Men complain or cry in this situation?



At the time of hunting and gathering men were encouraged to be tough. Society expects men to be tough under every circumstance and keep their emotions in check. Crying considered as weakness among men. For that reason men experienced loneliness when they can’t express their grief, love, hate and antipathy if men don’t show their emotions, tears and fears they will end up bitter and angry men. In my opinion there is nothing wrong to be shed tears; Men are human just like us women. Men should express their anger with emotions not by physical force. Crying in men should not be sign of weakness as long as they don’t cry 24 hours and seven days.

Friday, May 14, 2010

सात फेरो से धोखा --लेखक : कमलेश चौहान allrights reserved with kamlesh chauahn

रीता कितनी देर पूल मे तैरती रही तथा रवि न जाने कितनी देर से उसके जिसम को यु  कभी मुड़ता डोलता हिलता देखता रहा अपनी नज़रो से निहारता रहा  अचानक उसका ध्यान रीता की बीती जिंदगी पर चला गया..उसने कल्पना मे सुधीर को रीता के जिसम पर कोड़े बरसाते देखा तथा रीता को तरपते  चिलाते पाया.. अपनी ही कल्पना में खोया रवि भागकर रीता को बचाने पानी मे भागा... पानी की तेज लहर मे रीता को अपनी बाजूयो मे यु जकड लिया रीता इस कदर  चिलाती रही लेकिन रवि को न जाने क्या सूझी वोह रीता के अंगो को सहलाता गया..जैसे जैसे रीता का बदन पानी मे तैर रहा था ....... ............

S D Burman-Meri Duniyaan Hai Maan(Talash-1959)